“While we are postponing, life speeds by.”

It’s not the first time when your friend disappointed you with something or turn you down. It is understandable that you are upset about the situation but you need to act mature and try to understand why they took those decisions at that moment. It is not like we will not be a friend anymore.

“If you didn’t do it now then probably never”

For example, a friend was planning to travel to this particular country. Since it sounds interesting, we wanted to join because the more people the merrier it will be. Supposed one of our friends will be doing the booking earlier eventually he didn’t even though we have reminded him multiple times which cause the flight price to raise and cancel the travel plan. So stop depending on people because they’ll always cancel the plan.

Most people tend to be selfish where they will handle their own problems first before entertaining others. Basically, it’s human nature that we cannot avoid. You can only ask for advice but never let them decide for you. Choose the one that suits you and is best for you.

Most of the time, you end up keeping disappointment to yourself than telling it out because you don’t want to ruin the relationship or friendship but you’re indirectly emotionally hurting yourself. Stop waiting for people who always cancel your plan. Everyone has a plan in their life, if you had one execute it. If you keep waiting for people in life and they always turn it down then your plan will never be successful.

"No more disappointments because you have started doing things by yourself"

Start today, don’t wait, just start doing, let the people chase for it because it’s how things will work. Lesson from engineering school "If you want to change the culture, then change the system, eventually it will change the people.